{"id":4427,"date":"2021-05-18T11:07:13","date_gmt":"2021-05-18T09:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/museum.jewishtimisoara.ro\/?p=4427"},"modified":"2021-05-18T11:10:34","modified_gmt":"2021-05-18T09:10:34","slug":"avem-alegerea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/museum.jewishtimisoara.ro\/en\/avem-alegerea\/","title":{"rendered":"We have the choice ... Reflections on the occasion of the autumn holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ fullwidth=”on” _builder_version=”4.9.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_fullwidth_header title=”@ET-DC@eyJkeW5hbWljIjp0cnVlLCJjb250ZW50IjoicG9zdF90aXRsZSIsInNldHRpbmdzIjp7ImJlZm9yZSI6IiIsImFmdGVyIjoiIn19@” subhead=”Reflec\u021bii cu prilejul s\u0103rb\u0103torilor de toamn\u0103” text_orientation=”center” header_scroll_down=”on” scroll_down_icon_size=”40px” _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _dynamic_attributes=”title” _module_preset=”default”][\/et_pb_fullwidth_header][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px||false|false”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” max_width=”80%” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”10px||10px||true|false”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” link_font=”||||on||||” link_text_color=”#000000″ link_font_size=”17px” link_text_color__hover_enabled=”on|hover” link_text_color__hover=”#0A4DA3″]

Home<\/a> > Religious life<\/a> > Holidays<\/a><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.9.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” max_width=”80%”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.9.0″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/museum.jewishtimisoara.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/4.b.Iom-Kipur.2.jpg” title_text=”Familia Neumann” align=”center” _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ max_width=”60%” sticky_enabled=”0″ show_bottom_space=”off”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″]

New Year's greeting is Shana tova! A good year! and Hatima tova!, an abbreviated form for Let's be inscribed in the book of life! Drawing by Anath Hanit<\/span><\/em><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.9.2″ _module_preset=”default” text_font_size=”16px”]

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\u00cen zilele acestea am recitit istorioare de Isaac Bashevis Singer, un povestitor cum rar mai exist\u0103. \u00cen una din pove\u0219tile lui cu t\u00e2lc, Baruch, un t\u00e2n\u0103r hasid, ne vorbe\u0219te despre socrul lui, un negustor de lemne bogat \u0219i cinstit, un bun talmudist studios, dar opus hasidismului care pune accentul pe spiritualitate \u0219i pe aplicarea preceptelor morale f\u0103r\u0103 o analiz\u0103 temeinic\u0103, dar cu bucuria credin\u021bei.\u00a0 <\/span>Hasidul nostru este desigur revoltat de atitudinea socrului care mai are o meteahn\u0103\u00a0: este coleric. Omul nu poate s\u0103 se st\u0103p\u00e2neasc\u0103. Dac\u0103 cineva nu \u00ee\u0219i pl\u0103te\u0219te datoriile la timp, se \u00eenfurie, asta treac\u0103-mearg\u0103, dar la cea mai mic\u0103 abatere de la a\u0219tept\u0103rile sale, cum ar fi un fir de praf \u00een casa de o cur\u0103\u021benie impecabil\u0103, este cuprins de un asemenea acces de m\u00e2nie c\u0103 pierde orice control asupra sa. Dup\u0103 ce l-a p\u0103lmuit odat\u0103 pe Baruch, pentru c\u0103 acesta uitase s\u0103-i \u00eenapoieze o pan\u0103 de scris, socrul \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 seama c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eentreprind\u0103 ceva \u00eempotriva acestui p\u0103cat de care se ru\u0219ineaz\u0103. Cu<\/span> <\/span>toate c\u0103 sceptic, \u00eel \u00eenso\u021be\u0219te pe ginere la un rabin hasid \u00een Kuzmir. Din prima convorbire, negustorul iese furios, injuriind pe rabin. Acesta l-a sf\u0103tuit s\u0103 laude \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103guleasc\u0103 pe to\u021bi din jurul lui, buni sau nemernici, timp de opt zile! \u00cen lini\u0219tea \u0218abatului, b\u0103tr\u00e2nul rabin, str\u0103lucind de fervoare \u0219i \u00eemplinire sufleteasc\u0103, predic\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103ceilor: \u201eCeea ce conteaz\u0103 sunt faptele, ce face\u021bi. Sunte\u021bi colerici\u00a0? Nu face nimic, nu ave\u021bi dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fi\u021bi, dar rosti\u021bi vorbe prietene\u0219ti \u0219i fi\u021bi amabili\u2026 \u201d Prins \u00een vraja \u00een\u021beleptului, negustorul se \u00eentoarce acas\u0103 \u0219i aplic\u0103 metoda, la \u00eenceput cu poticneli, cu sc\u0103p\u0103ri, apoi din ce \u00een ce mai lesne, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd vorba bun\u0103 intr\u0103 \u00een rezonan\u021b\u0103 cu impulsul lui l\u0103untric de a fi generos \u0219i \u00eeng\u0103duitor \u0219i devine o expresie natural\u0103 a eului s\u0103u. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eMy question is always, \u2018What are you going to do about your life, beginning today?\u2019\u00a0\u201d \u00centrebarea mea este \u00eentotdeauna: Ce vrei s\u0103 faci cu via\u021ba ta, \u00eencep\u00e2nd de ast\u0103zi?, <\/i>citesc c\u00e2teva zile dup\u0103 lectura pove\u0219tii lui I.B.Singer \u00eentr-un articol necrolog despre psihologul american William Glasser, autorul \u201eteoriei alegerii\u201d.\u00a0 <\/span>\u201eNoi alegem tot ce facem\u201d, zice el, \u201einclusiv nefericirea pe care o sim\u021bim.\u201d Singura persoan\u0103 asupra c\u0103reia avem un control este propria noastr\u0103 persoan\u0103, deci, dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 iubim \u0219i s\u0103 fim iubi\u021bi, avem posibilitatea s\u0103 adapt\u0103m sau s\u0103 schimb\u0103m singura variabil\u0103 de care dispunem: propriul comportament.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

M-a frapat c\u0103 at\u00e2t \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tura hasidului c\u00e2t \u0219i a psihologului american converg spre mesajul s\u0103rb\u0103torilor noastre. Ro\u0219 Ha\u0219ana \u0219i Iom Kipur nu sunt legate de ciclul anotimpurilor, de \u00eens\u0103m\u00e2n\u021bare sau recolt\u0103, nici de evenimente istorice, ci sunt dedicate introspec\u021biunii \u0219i medita\u021biei care continu\u0103 \u00een cele zece zile dintre ele. Este o ocazie s\u0103 ne oprim din cursa cotidian\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m privirea spre trecut, \u00een jur, \u00een sine. Facem un bilan\u021b. Avem alegerea s\u0103 ne transform\u0103m, s\u0103 ne re-cre\u0103m, s\u0103 alegem c\u0103i noi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cemi doresc mie \u0219i doresc tuturor s\u0103 avem puterea s\u0103 ne folosim de aceast\u0103 \u0219ans\u0103. Shana tova! Un An Nou bun cu tot ce e necesar ca s\u0103 putem lua deciziile potrivite!<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span> <\/span> <\/span> <\/span> <\/span> <\/span> \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><\/span>Getta Neumann, 2013<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4428,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"1080","footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4427","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sarbatori"],"yoast_head":"\nAvem alegerea... 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